When you are young person, you only think on many trivial things like: videogames, what clothes you want to buy or use for a special party, event or for a dating with your boyfriend/girlfriend or just with friends. Sometimes teenagers are very "bipolar" with their feelings and physiological changes, but we need to know how to control their actions and toughts, with security and respect, considering that is a normal process how all the humans passed it and continues until the last day of our lives on this planet earth.
But is a complicated situation, because the behaviour of some teenagers nowadays is a mess, and here involve too what kind of ideas have the adults about teenagers. Is not good.. Isn´t it?.
Adults most of the time they only pay attention in the wrong actions, they always said their own ideologies and it dosen´t matter other opinions for exmaple:
-"You need to be very talent in something and explode"
-"Be someone important in the life"
-"Earn a lot of money"
-"Have many titles, acknowledgments in the school"
-"Have a good job and family in the future"
Obviously there are exceptions, not all are like this (don´t be angry, nobody is perfect) but usually these is not possible because some teenagers: first: don´t have the sinews for continue the school, second: have family problems or more simple don´t have any motivation for doing wherever they want, they are being stuck on a treadmill with any goal in their future. Where is the real problem here? They even know how to communicate with their own family, don´t feel very comfortable at home so they search another kind of help and support in friends, boyfriends / girlfriends or in addictions, so what we need to make a change? It´s a complicated answer.
I think based on my life, the most important things is have a good communication with other people, because the real education started at home before the school, and then all the work that you do in your life is really needed have a clear vision about frindships, realtionships, study and work goals for doing it all the time. Sometimes it is going to be very difficult and you are going to meet a lot of different people for good or bad but any situation leaves new knowledge, experiences. We need to take advantage of it and learn more extraordinary things.
For me my real support is always my family and my own optimis. Every morning I say some words for motivation and think... why I am doing this...? what I need to do for being a good Doctor?.. How can I help others with my knowledge?... and maybe I can´t know all the answers, because I am only a simple student of Medicine with 18 years old, I´m a little beginner in the world of adults, I don´t have a lot of experiences but I hope to be a good person in our Mexican society. I really hope my writing has helped you to think a little about your present and has made you meditate on these issues.
Thank you so much.. Have a nice day everyone!
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